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Relationship Expert Jimmie Day Jr
Jimmie Day Jr is a relationship expert that has been helping people for years in all aspects of relationship management. Jimmie Day Jr has authored four books on relationship and relationship issued and solutions. In one of his books Jimmie Day Jr writes that how to save relationships is not as important as knowing what causes break ups. There is one small statement that is detrimental in any relationship and most everybody uses this constantly as a tactic for winning arguments. This is the “you” statement. If used too often this will most likely lead to a break up “says Jimmie Day Jr”.
This is a way of getting out aggression to your partner. Metaphorically pointing the finger of blame by stating “you did this” or “You never do enough of that”. Just about everyone has used this statement in a relationship when they felt defensive and wanted to put the blame on their spouse for what ever it was that was bothering them “says Jimmie Day Jr”.
At another place Jimmie Day Jr writes that this is how children communicate in tough situations. Point the finger of blame on someone else for self preservation. When couples use these negative tactics on each other to emphasize their argument it will eventually spawn resentment. In relationships you will argue from time to time. The key is knowing how to get your point across in a respectful and appropriate way. A soon as you start accusing some one of anything, even if it is true, they will get defensive. The point of a healthy argument is to get your point across without being judgmental or vicious about it.
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